Mixed Sex-Wrestling as the New Entertainment By Stacy Barehugger Stacy Barehugger predicts a shocking, though not necc bad, future! Description of the author and his work (FOR THOSE INTERESTED): I, Stacy Barehugger, am a man who proudly owns a slightly feminine first name. For my writing, I use a thought-provoking last name. I am an author and sometimes illustrator of primarily mixed and sometimes female vs. female wrestling stories, I hope one day to release a book on such matters - including a philosophy on why some men want women to wrestle them at times even more than they might want to make love to them. I am available through Diana the Valkyrie's Bearhug discussion forum. Usually, my stories are about men and strong women who very competitively, and often erotically, wrestle each other. The women do not always win, but they nonetheless prove that they are pound-for-pound NOT the so-called "weaker sex". In fact, sometimes they are the masters of using sex as a weapon in their struggles, and always - they are brave. Although my stories have varying levels of sex and violence (and sometimes neither), usually no character gets more hurt than he or she might want to or deserve to. There is usually a powerful combination of eroticism and competition in the games that the combatants play that is mutually enjoyed between them, with the suspense maintained by making it not easy to predict which of two equally-matched combatants will defeat each other. Sometimes as well, the fight is fought to a draw - proving the equality of the fighters. And sometimes the story is simply about a man who loves to feel the true power of a woman exerted on him. So although my stories feature fleshy female fighters, they strive to be respectful toward women, celebrating their untold potentials, rather than exploitive. I apologize ahead of time if in reading one of my my stories you have found it to rehash material and concepts that I have already used in other stories. It was done for the benefit of those who might not have read any of my previous stories. I would recommend my erotic stories, as well as many of the other fine erotic stories in Diana's story section, to men and (I would imagine a few) women who have close and immediate access either to a cold shower, or each other. Mixed Sex-Wrestling as the New Entertaiment I have always found a certain combination of beauty and excitement that goes beyond anything that likely could be found in standard art, sport, or pornography for that matter, in the idea that a well- muscled woman may embrace a man who is only slightly better muscled than her in such a way that their nude, tanned, sweaty, glistening bodies grind together under a summer sun as she holds him in a tight sensual breast-to-chest bearhug while his arms go limp at his sides and his chin hangs over her shoulder - worn out more by her superior skill and endurance in wrestling than by any difference in strength. Although the woman has the upper hand, she looks almost as exhausted as he does, and both have lost any look of viciousness they might have had previously in favor of an overriding sensual feeling that makes them look like they are ready and willing to melt into each other. Both moan orgasmically as the man finally launches his seamen into a vagina that seems to be holding him as tightly in place as the amazon's arms. With one last shallow breath, the man gently taps the woman's back twice, signalling his defeat and her well-earned victory, which she celebrates with a passionate kiss with the man who is now paralysed more by exhaustion and sensual pleasure than with pain. He is only slightly dissappointed in losing to her. It would be a greater dissappointment to have never wrestled her - especially in THIS wonderful way. He would do it again in an instant - win or lose. What is the future of entertainment for the female fight fetishist? Female fight entertainment has always showcased a combination of competition and eroticism, and both ingredients seem to have intensified. This can only lead to something that has elements of both pornography and competitive wrestling. It already has lead to this in some cases of female vs. female bouts, where the wrestlers are actually quite athletic (even well-muscled) and competitive. In more rare instances, there is even a form of "pornographic wrestling" between the sexes where, essentially, sex takes precedence over any real competition. One example, for instance, is www.matrock.com. What is yet to come, however, is a more competitive battle of the sexes that is also very erotic. While some may argue that the competitive element may hinder the erotic element, others may argue that the competitive element may actually enhance the erotic element - making for a more exciting event. But the challenge then is to make such mixed and presumably nude wrestling competitive to a point where the audience will not find it easy to predict who will win, which of course will make the matches more exciting. The solution would seem to have believable, if not real matches, between people who at least appear to be evenly matched. Therefore, in a sort of "Clash of the Titans" scenario (I have written a story by the same name), women will need to look very close in size and strength to their male counterparts. We can allow such well-muscled women to be a little less strong than their male counterparts in the upper body, but that weakness must be counterbalanced by a possible strength over the men that the women may possess through any number of assets such as leg strength, speed, skill, and mental state, among others. Even a woman's center of gravity, which is typically lower than that of a man, may make her harder to fall to the mat than the man. In an erotic match that pits the uninhibited sexual passions of the two contestants against each other, sex may be used effectively as a weapon, where a wrestler may either use it to gain energy or even to cause his or her opponent to lose energy and/or focus. This may seem impossible, until you think about how invigorating, or exhausting, sex can really be. Additionally, one might even be immobilized and controlled through sex - "paralysed by pleasure" as it were. As an example, a woman performing a so-called "blow job" on a male wrestler might just as well have him immobilized in a full nelson with body scissors. The wrestling game might be made interesting if the goal of sexual domination is combined with the goal of gaining a pin or a submission from an opponent. The limitations do not stop there, however. One wrestling game might be dedicated toward total immobilization of one's opponent, perhaps more through the imposition of pleasure than pain on that person. Another wrestling game might be dedicated toward escaping one's oponent, perhaps to cross a line on one side of the mat, and perhaps within a certain time limit (as in my story "The Line-Wrestling Lovers"). Escaping a blow job may be a near impossibility in such a scenario between two lovers (non-lovers competiting requires the use of a condom in my book, and therefore no blow jobs). In yet another scenario, man and woman could wrestle each other in a sort of non-competitive pre- match test. They could have this time together to demonstrate to each other their strengths, and get a feel for each other (in a numer of ways), before deciding whether or not they are evenly matched and whether or not they will wrestle the "real" match. One way that I envision this to happen is as follows: - Man and woman square off on the mat, wrestling toward a pin. - The person who loses to the pin must prove their tolerance to their opponent by letting his or her opponent impose on him or her sex, and a sumbission move. As such, sex becomes a reward for pinning one's opponent (if less of a reward for being pinned). The sex may be imposed quite intensely and used as a submission move. This sex, as well as any subsequent submission move, becomes a test for the pinned wrestler to demonstrate tolerance. Once he or she submits, then the roles are reversed, so that he or she, still pinned, will be allowed apply a submission move (possibly after struggling out of the pin) without resistance, and that submission move may again be sex. In other words, submission moves will be traded, with the first pin determining which wrestler starts, all as a test of strength and tolerance. Two contestants who truly like BEING wrestled as much as, or more than, wrestling each other, will enjoy this unique sort of semi-combative demonstration, or "dance" as it were. - The demonstration will end based on a set number of submission moves traded, or a set time period. - After the demonstration, man and woman both decide whether to declare the other wrestler the winner, or to actually wrestle a real submission-based match at some later time. Note that while tolerance and strength may have been demonstrated, along with some skill in terms of free-style wrestling and even a little in sexual domination, very little skill in submission-style wrestling has been demonstrated at this point. Again, this first stage really determines whether the wrestlers are evenly matched, or are at least brave enough to face each other again. It is also a matter each wrestler trying to gain an accurate perception of the other. A brave female wrestler who is pinned by the male may not feel so much as if she has been "raped" by him as much as if she is being given the chance to prove just how tough she is by allowing the man to give his best shot at making her submit through the sex. It is therefore a demonstratable victory for the woman if she does not submit before the man ejaculates, and it is a better victory if she ejaculates as well - proving she enjoys wrestling in this honest, intimate way and is not bothered my the man's advances. Of course, the greatest victory is if she wins the pin, and then in a sense "rapes" the man and shatters the usual sense of the male as the sexual dominator. The icing on the cake might be if she is strong enough to make him submit to the sex - his penis somehow losing what might be a wrestling match with her vagina, perhaps as it is being consticted upon and, with the swing of the woman's hips, painfully bent out of shape. A man easily defeating a woman in this game is no surprise, and neither is a staged gimmicky fight where a woman quite impossibly seems to easily dominate and defeat a man. But with a truly intense-looking struggle between similarly sized members of the opposite sex, we might truly believe in the awesome and recently unacknowledged power of the female, for even if the female we are watching loses, she does not lose without an awesome fight and an exhausted male. We might feel as the male does - that it is not whether you win or lose the game, but whether you have been satisfied in receiving good competition from a female. Only then will any sex with the beauty whose muscley curves we lust after be truly satisfying as well - even if it is, perhaps, sex without love. At least there is the love of the "sexwrestling" itself, and an awesome individual to share that with. If one feels uncomfortable loving or hating the person he or she is fighting, then at least one can find a special respect for one's most worthy of opponents. If there are unfortunately men in this world who fantasize about raping women, then there are other men who fantasize about ejaculating in their moment of wrestling defeat by a woman - as if to admit their defeat and to salute the woman's overwhelming power. It is hard for me to argue against an event that can be mutually enjoyed by the combatants, and an audience, for whom the repression of the love of combat may not be the answer - even if this entertainment or sport is NOT appropriate for prime time. If nothing else, this is a lot better than the days of the Roman gladitorial arena, when women were pushed into the arena to engage in often hopeless life and death struggles vs. men and women.